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Always in the big woods when you leave familiar ground and step off alone into a new place there will be, along with the feelings of curiosity and excitement, a little nagging of dread. It is the ancient fear of the Unknown, and it is your first bond with the wilderness you are going into.
Wendell Berry

It takes courage to be an leader.

And it takes courage to admit you don’t have all the answers. To sit in that reflective space and allow for the possibility that maybe you are part of the problem. Maybe you are the one getting in your own way. It’s probably not from a lack of knowing what needs to be done. We are bombarded with messages all day long about what to do… books, blogs, webinars, and even our Aunt Martha. The questions of contention, the ones that white-knuckle us, are often more about “How do I do this? How does this manifest in MY bones?” It’s one thing to study the answers and quite another to stand in the field in that moment, with the call of action before you. To feel and see what is catching you. To understand and articulate what old patterns are popping up. Your old go-to ways that have served you most of your life… but now are keeping you from where you long to be.

Who is standing in that field with you?

In the northern regions of Canada, indigenous tribes built large stone structures called inuksuk. The inuksuk are signs for lonely travelers who get lost, helping them find their way. Similarly, I will be a guide for you. We’ll figure it out together, reorient to the path that makes sense right now, and build the muscles for you to better navigate the wilderness of challenges that come your way.

Real leaders in real conversation.

Below are voices of real leaders in real conversation about their challenges. Maybe you see a reflection of your own longings for growth in their words. Maybe you read this with a hollowness in the pit of your stomach – feeling the ache for change but having no words to articulate what it is you long for. And that’s ok. You are out there every day forging ahead in uncharted territory, bringing your unique talent, story, and way of operating in the world. You are bound to get bound up at times.

What my clients say…

Randy Duane, CEO

“The competencies and confidences I’ve achieved through my work with Judy has made running my business easier. She recognizes that business challenges are most often complex, multifaceted, and rarely, if ever, solved through flavor of the month “quick fixes.”

Randy Duane CEO - Executive Team Coaching Testimonial

Tara Sanders Lowe, Realtor

“Judy’s coaching style held me accountable at each of our meetings to take an important deep dive at what I was doing in my current methods.”

Tara Sanders Lowe Realtor - Business Strategy Coaching Testimonial

Mason Scuderi, COO

“I view my journey with Judy as one of the most significant periods of growth in my entire career. I would highly recommend working with Judy to anyone with the desire to become a more effective, balanced and compassionate leader.”

Mason Scuderi COO - Leadership Coaching Testimonial

Shawn Duffy, CEO & Principal Security Consultant

“When I started working with Judy, I … was still struggling with the leap from being my own boss to being a business owner. Judy has worked with me to uncover a number of strategies that have helped me make the transition.”

Shawn Duffy CEO - Executive Coaching Testimonial

Give me a call today at (240) 382-3554, to explore how, through leadership coaching, we can begin to sort this out and get you more boldly back into your game.

What my clients say…

Randy Duane, CEO

“The competencies and confidences I’ve achieved through my work with Judy has made running my business easier. She recognizes that business challenges are most often complex, multifaceted, and rarely, if ever, solved through flavor of the month “quick fixes.”

Shawn Duffy, CEO & Principal Security Consultant

“When I started working with Judy, I … was still struggling with the leap from being my own boss to being a business owner. Judy has worked with me to uncover a number of strategies that have helped me make the transition.”

Sara Hampton, Career and Technical Educator

“Working with Judy allowed me to look at my challenges in a way that I had never before considered. Her compassion and attentiveness, coupled with her knowledge and ambition, create an invaluable partner in your journey.”

Morgan Sell, Community Organizer

“One of the aspects about Judy’s coaching sessions that had the most profound impact … was the recommendation from her to begin accepting who I was, right now… 100%. It is not until we do this, that we can truly move through the resistance into a new stage of life.”

Where are you struggling?

Overwhelmed & Overworked:Executive Coach for Overwhelmed and Overworked

I spend so much time looking over employees’ shoulders because they can’t be trusted to do things the right way.

The thing is, I hate confrontation. I allow things to move along below standards, hoping it will get better. Then at some point, I snap and start firing.

I long to be able to clearly and regularly articulate my expectations and follow-up with appropriate consequences.

Executive Coach for Disoriented and UnfulfilledDisoriented & Unfulfilled:

My biggest frustration is that I’ve lost my sense of purpose within all the noise of running my business, making everyone happy, and keeping the lights on.

I find myself saying “yes” to commitments that don’t light my passion. Sometimes I look around and wonder, “What’s this all for?”

I long to have the kind of clarity around my purpose and vision that will rekindle the fire in my belly.

Fearful & Frozen:Executive Coach for Fearful and Frozen

I’ve been completely paralyzed about my new venture. While my gut tells me there’s a market for my idea, my mind is swarming with fear and judgment.

Who am I to claim I’m an expert? What if I fall flat on my face? I fear everyone is watching, and I can’t bring myself to launch forward.

I long to be able to step more boldly into my passion and dreams with power, precision, and poise.

Executive Coach for Unbalanced and ExhaustedUnbalanced & Exhausted:

I have a strong internal desire to serve, help, and give to others. Sometimes I give too much – beyond what I’m being paid to do, beyond what feels healthy.

I easily burn out, leaving little time for me, my business goals, and what brings me joy.

I long to be able to set clearer boundaries around my schedule, cultivate more balance, and restore my zest for life.

Distracted & Derailed:Executive Coach for Distracted and Derailed

My phone doesn’t leave my side. The first and last thing on my mind each day is “What do I need to accomplish? What problem do I need to solve? What could go wrong tomorrow?”

I’m generally wracked in fear that if I relax and turn off my motor, I’ll lose all the ground I’ve achieved.

I long to quiet my head noise and have more presence in my connections, trusting where I am and how I got here.

Executive Coach for Isolated and AloneIsolated & Alone:

I have a strong network of friends, yet I think most of them would be surprised at my struggles. There is so much pressure to have it all together and be on “top.”

People stop checking on us strong ones. Anxiety has taken over my core yet most of the world would never know.

I long to be able to reach out and form more meaningful and supportive connections with peers and partners.

Ready to talk about what’s challenging you? Contact me today and let’s
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